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January 02, 2008

Is anybody out there?

Is anybody out there? or Where are all the bloggers gone? It's getting a bit lonely at this round table, if no other bugger shows up i might as well go back to work!
On the subject of work, i think i will tell you a little bit about mine.
Every day is different, mostly due to the fact that most of the people i work with are not yet set in stone, as yet they have no ego to protect, they live the moment, they don't hide away their feelings,if they're sad they cry, if they're angry, they rage, shout, push, bite and scratch and if they are happy they enjoy life to the full. For them the world is a new and wonderful playground full of exciting objects and oppotunities.

This is the land of the little people and here they definitely rule!
You may have already guessed,but for those in limbo land i work with children, specifically under three year olds.
Do i enjoy my work? yes immensely, i just love being with these free spirts who most as yet are open to life.
I take my job seriously, these are precious little humans in my hands, how i treat them could possibley effect others they come in contact with for the next 70+ years. Whether they see themselves as good or bad or as someone who can or can't depends on how i and others treat them in these formative years. As a adult i possess tremendous power to make a child's life miserable or joyous.
I aim for joyous, how do i do this?, well over the years (it's been alot of years) i've learn't that i best serve the children i work with by allowing myself to be an empty space to recieve their ideas, when i understand what they are trying to achieve i can help and guide them and set up opportunities for them to practice the skills they need to develop in order to accomplish what they want to do.
It's not rocket science, but it always amazes me how many adults find it difficult to put down their own agendas when working with children.
With the age group i work with they vote with their feet, if they are not interested in what you are doing,it's bye bye sucker and they go and find something more engrossing, being left on your own by a bunch of little people tends to put you in your place.
Even if i say so myself, i am good with little ones and they like being in my company, some of the people i work with say it's because mentally i'm on their level, i take this as a compliment!

Posted by Shelliz at January 2, 2008 04:18 PM

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Lovely to read, I am going to direct my daughter to read this as she is interesterd in working with children and you are quite inspiring.

Posted by: Roberty Bobberty at January 4, 2008 04:58 PM

I'm here, Shelliz! I'm reading! You are not alone. Though I must admit I don't like children at all - but am happy when people get to do something they like, even if it's something I'd hate!

Happy New Year!

A
xxx

Posted by: Anne Brooke at January 2, 2008 07:40 PM